The Wet Blanket a.k.a The Party Poppers!
Have you ever encounter moments when you feel a strong desire to do something, but was pour cold water even before you started doing it. It is demoralizing to hear that. The question is —- Why cant he/she support what i am doing? Is it Damn Hard?
As mentioned, I hate people who have the ability to demoralize another living being. How will you like if you were being demoralize?
The demoralizing session happened to me several times in my whole entire life till now, I have usually ignored them when I was younger. However, as i grew up, i realized that attacking our morale is equals to asking us to give up or totally stop doing that particular thing. Is bullying considered demoralizing?
For instance, I am going to participate in this year art exhibition and may need to go to the cabin more often to do my artwork. Thus, I requires some sort of assistance to bring me downstairs and take a cab. In this example, you can see that demoralisers often told you: “It is so troublesome don’t bother to go la!” or “You Settle Yourself”!
My meaning is not to blame the demoralisers but will it hurt just to support me in whatever I am doing? However, i understand the purpose or motive behind it, it is totally not as bad as you think.
To cut things short (i don’t think my readers want a lengthy/wordy post), I think the most important and effective way to counteract these demoralisers is to keep your thinking positive and believe that you CAN do it!! Think positive 🙂
